I like a married man, how do I get out?
How it all began
No, it was not you who dredged him. It is too often believed that it is the mistresses who take the first step but, apart from a few "serial-loveuses", it is very often the married man who seduces his pretty little prey.
You do not even look at him first, this married guy. For a long time you had put him in the category of "untouchables". However, he did not hesitate to make you a diligent court, as if nothing had happened ... You would have almost forgotten that he was married, to a detail: his alliance.
When he spoke to you, you felt put on a foot of Estal and it was rewarding. He kept telling you that you were prettier, more desirable than his wife. His little goddess just him. He had the right words, the right ones. And then, without warning, passion began to devour you slowly.
One day, what was coming, came: you slept together. During the lunch break.
Just after the first kiss, you said to him, with a feverish air "You're married, it makes me uncomfortable", to which he retorted imperturbable: "What should I say I'm married, I have children and I do not feel guilty yet ... Go relax ... ". That's how you fell into the panel.
It amused you, at first, to have the beautiful role and make him mad in bed but since you are in love, the situation is very different ...
What makes you suffer
-He leaves you alone after your antics where he was so tender. It looked like a man lover, a real but it is with his wife that he sleeps every night. This idea obsesses you and hurts you so badly ...
-You stay riveted to your phone entire evenings, without news of him. When you ask for explanations, he answers "It's complicated to manage a family, you understand".
it cancels your weekend in loverat the last minute, because his wife has doubts or her son makes his first tooth.
-you spend your holidays alone while at Club Med with your family, in the tropics.
he swears he loves you, but he loves his wife too. That's different, that's all.
he promises you, with tears in his eye, that he will leave his wife one day, that he must be given time ... But you are now sure that he has learned his text in "Les Feux of the'love"And that's comedy, that's all, one year you're waiting and still no change.
-you are afraid that his wife will discover everything and come home to cut you in circles, as in a real horror movie!
The solutions to get out
One way out: the escape!
You will need a lot of will because you are well and truly addicted to your charming executioner ... But the more you wait and the more you will suffer. So do not let yourself be deluded and run away. Now.
Why?
In 95% of cases, a married man never divorces and stays with his wife, whatever happens!
Do you see yourself waiting until you're 80, frankly?
If, in the end, it is his wife who leaves him or if he has a rare miracle-he decides to leave her, you will never be able to trust him. He could repeat his antics with the first comer! Hello anguish.
Nothing guarantees you finally, that once the excitement of the adulterous relationship has disappeared, it always has this attraction for you ... You could well become, from one day to the next, as boring in his eyes as his ex-wife.
To finally leave, leave without leaving an address. The fop may indeed seek to recover you by all means because he was used to this comfort of life with two women! Once this balance is broken, here it is all disarmed, the poor! Well, that's not your problem anymore.
Have no qualms; the only person he has ever really liked in this whole story is not his wife or you. It's him. And a real egotist, we do not change it!
Because of this separation, you will cry all the tears in your body, that's for sure. Too bad, you have to go through it. To get better, take refuge with close friends who will cheer you up.
One morning, you will not think of him, as if by magic. You can then rebuild and consider a new story, with a free boy like air, this time!
No, it was not you who dredged him. It is too often believed that it is the mistresses who take the first step but, apart from a few "serial-loveuses", it is very often the married man who seduces his pretty little prey.
You do not even look at him first, this married guy. For a long time you had put him in the category of "untouchables". However, he did not hesitate to make you a diligent court, as if nothing had happened ... You would have almost forgotten that he was married, to a detail: his alliance.
When he spoke to you, you felt put on a foot of Estal and it was rewarding. He kept telling you that you were prettier, more desirable than his wife. His little goddess just him. He had the right words, the right ones. And then, without warning, passion began to devour you slowly.
One day, what was coming, came: you slept together. During the lunch break.
Just after the first kiss, you said to him, with a feverish air "You're married, it makes me uncomfortable", to which he retorted imperturbable: "What should I say I'm married, I have children and I do not feel guilty yet ... Go relax ... ". That's how you fell into the panel.
It amused you, at first, to have the beautiful role and make him mad in bed but since you are in love, the situation is very different ...
What makes you suffer
-He leaves you alone after your antics where he was so tender. It looked like a man lover, a real but it is with his wife that he sleeps every night. This idea obsesses you and hurts you so badly ...
-You stay riveted to your phone entire evenings, without news of him. When you ask for explanations, he answers "It's complicated to manage a family, you understand".
it cancels your weekend in loverat the last minute, because his wife has doubts or her son makes his first tooth.
-you spend your holidays alone while at Club Med with your family, in the tropics.
he swears he loves you, but he loves his wife too. That's different, that's all.
he promises you, with tears in his eye, that he will leave his wife one day, that he must be given time ... But you are now sure that he has learned his text in "Les Feux of the'love"And that's comedy, that's all, one year you're waiting and still no change.
-you are afraid that his wife will discover everything and come home to cut you in circles, as in a real horror movie!
The solutions to get out
One way out: the escape!
You will need a lot of will because you are well and truly addicted to your charming executioner ... But the more you wait and the more you will suffer. So do not let yourself be deluded and run away. Now.
Why?
In 95% of cases, a married man never divorces and stays with his wife, whatever happens!
Do you see yourself waiting until you're 80, frankly?
If, in the end, it is his wife who leaves him or if he has a rare miracle-he decides to leave her, you will never be able to trust him. He could repeat his antics with the first comer! Hello anguish.
Nothing guarantees you finally, that once the excitement of the adulterous relationship has disappeared, it always has this attraction for you ... You could well become, from one day to the next, as boring in his eyes as his ex-wife.
To finally leave, leave without leaving an address. The fop may indeed seek to recover you by all means because he was used to this comfort of life with two women! Once this balance is broken, here it is all disarmed, the poor! Well, that's not your problem anymore.
Have no qualms; the only person he has ever really liked in this whole story is not his wife or you. It's him. And a real egotist, we do not change it!
Because of this separation, you will cry all the tears in your body, that's for sure. Too bad, you have to go through it. To get better, take refuge with close friends who will cheer you up.
One morning, you will not think of him, as if by magic. You can then rebuild and consider a new story, with a free boy like air, this time!
