I can not say "I love you"
I love you, a little, a lot, to madness, not at all ... At the beginning of a relationship, under the effect of passion and first emotions, we take the time to show the other to how important it is to us But with time and wear of the couple, these gestures of affection are more rare, and the words oflove with. How to rekindle the flame and show the other that we love it as the first day? explanations
Some words of love
"I love you" is undoubtedly the statement oflove absolute and that is why these words are so difficult to pronounce, even after several months of relationship, whatever its intensity. And then, the person who declares his love saying "I love you" strangely feels like giving up one's soul to the loved one.
Express his lovethat is to say that one feels deep feelings that go beyond the carnal agreement ... It is somewhere to "expose" one's feelings and make oneself vulnerable.
Unlike men, women have an easier time expressing their loveand some find ways other than words to say it. They do it through gestures and by multiplying the attentions in everyday life. Men, modest by nature and with an education less open to feelings have more trouble to engage ... To help him express his emotionsdo not point it out, but try to make it clear that these few words are important to you ... and that without doubting his feelings, you need to be reassured.
Trick
Before you draw the courage to say it, you must be sure of your feelings and if you can not get out of your mouth, you can slip a little word in a pocket, or a small card on the pillow that he will read when he awakes. Another idea is to use a blackboard where you write a sweet word in the morning.
To express your passion, you can enjoy a romantic weekend, or vacation, away from the routine that sometimes threatens the couple. The atmosphere is more conducive to a statement and you are more available: sunset, romantic tête-à-tête ...
A little trick to relax before pronouncing the famous "I love you": let go, then take a deep breath and start looking at him straight in the eyes.
The fear of being disappointed ... the art of flight
Through their experience, difficult relationships, some of us have trouble opening their hearts and letting their feelings speak. This communication difficulty can be attributed to a lack of self-confidence or a fear of anxiety. Others have trouble with the commitment and are looking for all possible ways to defoss and take the time to escape. It's up to you to identify which of these two categories your darling belongs to!
Our advice
Writing one's feelings can replace speech for the shy ones. A letter that you will take the time to write helps you translate into words your emotions and to make them known to the loved one. A statement made thus always touches the person who receives it, as a first testimony oflove... So get writing !
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