Lovers coaching: is it worth it or not?
Identity Card of Lovers Coaching
"A week to change" promises a famous coaching deco program. A promise that is not that of love coaching. Rather than make sure that you denigrate your soul sister in one or two months, he proposes to analyze the springs of your relations to the other sex. Why do your relationships last so little or are they so conflicting? How to explain that you are attracted systematically by the same type of men? What must be changed in your way of being to put all the chances on your side to live happy as a couple? An approach, which is practiced individually or in a group, punctually or in the long term, which should not be assimilated with that led by the psychologist ... The coach works in a "pro-active" way by trying to determine immediately what concrete solutions can be put in place. For its part, the therapist's vocation is to carry out a more in-depth work, to help you find in yourself the answers that explain your loneliness, your current malaise. Both approaches can be complementary.
For singles or couples in distress
The vast majority of people who turn to love coaches are solos. There are a plethora of single women, well into their thirties or mid-40s, who have done well professionally but have left out everything that touches the private (or have not known how to build sustainable things in this sphere) as well as divorced men of both sexes, who feel they no longer exist on the market of seduction. But we also find in these sessions of the shy, boys and girls together, lacking benchmarks, self-confidence: the job of the coach is then to teach them the codes to interact with each other, to approach or let them approach . Finally, love coaches also support couples, when they have the impression of being in relational impasses or hesitate about following their story, after an infidelity for example.
Relative but real utility
If you do not expect a miracle, or prince charming delivered on a plateau, coaching lovers can have a real efficiency to get clear with oneself, with its blockages, its leaks, its contradictions and power then consider a story where one would be aware of these bulky emotional "baggage". History of not repeating the same mistakes forever ... Note that this type of services also exists online but it is better to opt for a face-to-face coaching, generally warmer and more productive.
