Ten misconceptions about sex to forget very quickly
1.The longer it takes, the better
No, runners of penetration are not necessarily, in the eyes of women, the best lovers. On the one hand, because part of them reach theOrgasm in less than three minutes, thanks to the excitement generated by the preliminaries. At the fastest, it only takes a handful of seconds ... And also have the choice to prefer to the long-term performances the quickies unrestrained that one agrees between two doors, for example in speed in the morning before going to work.
2. Masturbation is a sign of sexual frustration
The pleasure of two and that which one grants oneself alone are two very distinct things. If the second can actually allow us to reward ourselves with pretty ecstasies when we have no available partner ... on hand, it is not at all incompatible with the relationship of couple. Masturbation can indeed help us maintain our libido in shape. And we even have the right, if the heart tells us, to give pleasure while our dear and tender look at us and vice versa!
3. What matters is the size of the penis of Monsieur
Do not let us face the face: a "tool" too mini is actually likely to baffle us. But apart from this extreme case, we do not care enough that he has the stature of Rocco Siffredi's member. The tonicity of the penis, its rigidity, its creativity also count much more than the diameter or the addition of the centimeters.
4. Men are very demanding that women
Even if the testosterone that their organism produces is whetting their appetites, their propensity to sex is not just a question of hormones, of biological need but is built on the desire, a desire which takes shape in the brain. In this, men and women are quite equal. But it is true that our libido is more likely to be influenced - negatively - by our fatigue, our stress and other annoyances.
5. Absence of erection equals absence of desire
If some of the boys who have passed in our lives - or the one who is currently part of them - have sometimes experienced breakdowns horizontally, it's not because we do not want them, on the contrary .. It was precisely because they were too much of a pleasure to satisfy us, because they were impressed that this kind of misadventure could have happened to them.
6. Ejaculation is synonymous with enjoyment
Do not confuse ejaculation and Orgasm. The first is strictly mechanical and it is quite possible that it triggers without joining an explosive enjoyment. And a man can have, conversely, very strong feelings without yet ejaculate.
7. The best of the best is to have a simultaneous orgasm
It's nice when it happens ... but by chance. Because if you make it an obligation, or even an obsession, it may affect the quality of our antics rather than spice them up.
8. You can not be vaginal and clitoral
We often make the mistake of opposing these two forms of pleasure. In reality, they are complementary, indeed inseparable: it is the excitation of the clitoris that leads the vagina to contract and provokes eventually theOrgasm.
9. All women have a G-spot
If the existence of a point G, on the wall of the vaginal bottom, is no longer contested, its stimulation does not produce the same effect in each: it will take some directly to the seventh heaven when others will feel that a vague feeling of pleasure or nothing at all. Here too, we must not set ourselves the goal of achieving it.
10. To have a sexuality flourished, you have to vary the positions
Why not necessarily want to complicate life? If you have found the position or positions that make you climb to the ceiling every time, there is no harm in sticking to it. Know all the pages of the Kamasutra is not a guarantee of sexual ecstasy.
To read :
- Masturbation makes deaf - 300 Ideas received on the sex, doctor Sylvain Mimoun and journalist Isabelle Yhuel at Editions First.
- The sexuality without taboos, to free oneself from preconceived ideas by Catherine Blanc at Editions Flammarion.
