January 16, 2022

The 10 clues to know if he's cheating on you

1. He comes home from work and as you do every day, you hold him in your arms, happy to find him. Except that today, something is different: its smell! You had never felt that on him before. A woman's perfume, there is no doubt. You decide not to worry, after all, this is the first time. The problem is that a week later, it starts again: it smells patchouli! After a while, the report is irrevocable, either he spends every Tuesday at the perfume shop, or he rubs against another woman who smells like a casserole ...

2. For a few months or weeks, he comes back very late from "work", often goes out "between guys", announces you at 8 pm that he does not come back right away because he has a last minute dinner " with customers ", goes on" professional "trips, etc. You live under the same roof, and yet you have the impression to meet him rather than live with him.

3. Until now, if anything proved that your couple was working, it was sex! He was the best lover you knew, fiery, impulsive. But for some time, your lovemaking has become a little dull, and especially very rare! He is supposedly dead or does not have his head on that. Well then...

4. You have already made the reflection: he seems distant, less pampering with you, he claims less kisses, cuddles, papouilles, you said less sweet words. In the morning, rather than sticking to you, he jumps out of bed as soon as the alarm rings. In the evening he falls asleep quickly, turning his back on you.

5. He who has never been particularly jealous, at this moment he is unbearable. He accuses you of flirting with the cashier, of making your colleague's eyes soft, of waddling indecently, or of dressing too lightly. Yet this is not the case, you have not changed your attitudes. Would being unfaithful make him paranoid?

6. Not so long ago, he maintained that the cement of the couple was communication. Except that lately, sir seems to have changed his mind. He runs away from the conversations that disturb him ... No need to talk to him about children, about marriage, and even less about eternal love or fidelity: the time to finish your sentence, he has already spun in the room next door ! And when you insist and ask him why he refuses to discuss it, he gets angry. Well...

7. The account attached ... a gold mine of information! By consulting it, you discover unusual and fairly substantial expenses? After some research, you learn that these are purchases made at a jeweler, a florist, a lingerie shop or a hotel reservation. You wait for the surprise gift, but several days later, still nothing. Apparently it was not for you ... Ouch.

8. You were very close to his friends, but for some time you have hardly heard from them. They no longer call, are never available and always find a good excuse to refuse your dinner invitations. It's weird, you have not done anything wrong. Why are they fleeing you? Guilt, maybe? ...

9. You need his cell phone, but you can not get your hands on it. For a little while your darling has been hiding his cell phone, he has changed all his passwords on the Internet, he even locks his computer with a secret code. When you ask him for explanations, he can not match three sensible words? No doubt he has things to hide!

10. He who was not particularly trying to make himself beautiful, all of a sudden he tries to look like a supermodel. He begins to take care of him, finished the casual look: he buys new clothes, changes haircuts, does a little diet ... All this for you? Not so sure...

Your suspicions correspond to only one of these indices? We will have to continue to conduct the investigation ... From two or three clues, you have good reason to think that he will see elsewhere, perhaps you should confront him gently? Beyond five, no doubt: your man is cheating on you. Do not suffer anymore, react! Leave him or forgive him, it's up to you to see, but first, a good "fist" is required!

10 signs a guy is cheating on you! Signs of infidelity (January 2022)