Valentine's Day: Survival Guide for the Single
1: Do not lose your temper
First misstep to avoid: the evening loukoum. The scenario is not very pleasant: you, a couch, a pot of ice, a box of tissues and a TV screen. In this case, two options are available to you. Hate all those proud-of-being couples who at this very moment coo with happiness, or pity you on your fate by persuading you of the worst: you will never find anyone. In short, jealousy, grudge, despair, we forget!
Second red card: the evening excuses or "how to find a thousand excuses to cloister me at home, out of sight". Catch up on late work, go to bed early to avoid a lack of sleep, suffer from a feverish rise or unexplained stomach ache ... It is well found but you will not deceive anyone: you do not assume your celibacy . It might be time to change things, do not you think?
Last worst scenario: the evening nostalgia. "Here, what if I call back my exs?" Especially not ! You would pass for a hopeless case, unable to recover from a breakup and move on. As for contacting your ex-rivals to insult them or make them bad jokes, it's the same, it's NO! It will not change your situation. It's up to you to take charge, to be positive and get rid of your queen drama costume ...
2: Do not feel guilty about being single
Why so much fuss around the Valentine's Day ? Although this is an opportunity for couples to remember that they love each other, some of them do not celebrate, or are disappointed with the result. Monsieur forgets the bouquet of flowers and is content with a simple card with the three words of rigor, Madam is hysterical because she has not managed to have a reservation in a large restaurant and his permanent brand new will not be admired. Not to mention all those who will forget to celebrate their half!
And how many times have you heard that the Valentine's Day is only a commercial party orchestrated by an army of media and advertising? All the more reason to take part in the festivities! You are single, no private exit! Wallet in pocket, you will be welcome in all bars / restaurants / parties. If the others are enjoying the show, why not you?
3: Organize a counter-party
After hesitating a few minutes to mope, you finally decided to react and spend a good evening. It's time to take things in hand. Tonight, you are organizing an evening "Anti Valentine's DayThe goal: to bring your friends together singles and make fun of what (thank God) you escape!
Feel free to announce the color: no slumber party and wailing in perspective, please bring his good mood, let the challenges and blues in the closet.
Role-playing, improbable fake couples, disguises of small women of interior or female mistresses, Candy or Catwoman, cliché music, romantic film with syrupy tendency, etc. The worst of the worst couple, tonight you're having fun!
4: Take care of yourself
Do not want to go out? Tonight, you decide to take care of yourself, to relax with a zen evening and well-being. Different festivities on the program: bubble bath, scrub, meditation ...
Tomorrow, those who have abused champagne, hearty heart-shaped chocolates and endless slows will envy your good looks! You will be fresh, radiant and refreshed as they try desperately to drown their excesses and fatigue in coffee, concealer or analgesics.
5: Open to meetings
For the most motivated, there are special evenings singles. Nothing says you will not find the soul sister tonight! Of course, it will be necessary to make the choice between Robert 33 years old, fan of tunning, Pascal 27 years old, passionate of literature of the Middle Ages and dead languages and Jason (formerly Jacques), 23 years old, whose sole ambition to participate in the island of temptation.
It's up to you to find the rare pearl in the middle of this ocean of more or less good parties. Attention Casanovas and Don Juans of all kinds, if it's the love you seek, stay alert ...
