Young mother on the brink of nerve crisis: 8 tips to simplify your life!
1- We give him a pacifier!
One thing is certain, you will have to justify yourself against the eternal question: "But why did you give him a pacifier, it's not very good for him?" To make you feel better, know that it reassures your baby to suck and More than your thumb or pacifier, your child will be fine whatever happens to the dentist!
2- Vacuum the baby to rock his baby!
You have tried everything: lullabies, classical music, nothing happens to put your baby to sleep except the sound of the vacuum cleaner. It sure bores your neighbors but see the advantage: thanks to your baby, your apartment has never been so clean? !
3- We give him ready made pots
A model mother would cook homemade dishes for her baby, spend hours developing new recipes! Not you ! Your baby has all the life to awaken to culinary flavors while you do not have the evening in front of you. To reassure you, know that there are some great little pots! (the Hipp brand in particular).
4- We do not give him bath every day!
That's for sure baby loves to be in his bath. We, we would be crazy to the idea of depriving ourselves of a shower for a day. But let's be realistic, children do not run 100 meters every day. As for most dermatos, they recommend taking a bath to your baby once every 2 days, the skin of an infant being very fragile. So, you will not feel guilty!
5- We sleep baby in bed!
This is not good for the autonomy of the baby, let alone for the intimacy of the couple. But honestly the first months, who has a lot of libido? And if we can avoid getting up 10 times a night, why not go without? Just know that you will take a little longer for your baby to finally sleep alone in his room!
6- We put his child a few minutes in front of the TV!
The TV, it tends to stupefy a little, but it gives us a little time to make a phone call or make a machine. So we do not stress, we just choose an educational program (as on the channel Baby TV), we avoid putting them at 2 centimeters from the screen and we turn off the TV after a few minutes!
7- We do not change his diaper as soon as he pee!
Prepare for the eternal question "Would you like to be left in a wet pan for hours? No, it's safe! But in this case, where is the interest of a layer then? It is marked on the instructions: "Baby can spend 5 hours in his bed". So we can wait a little except obviously if it is the big commission!
8- We put a slight distance with her stepmother!
If you want to see her come out every day, have the right to her education tips, follow our advice! Silence radio for a few weeks. Some will say that it is very bad for the baby to cut him off from his family but we know very well that he will have plenty of time to meet him!
If you follow all our advice, you will go much better and promised, your baby will not be traumatized!
One thing is certain, you will have to justify yourself against the eternal question: "But why did you give him a pacifier, it's not very good for him?" To make you feel better, know that it reassures your baby to suck and More than your thumb or pacifier, your child will be fine whatever happens to the dentist!
2- Vacuum the baby to rock his baby!
You have tried everything: lullabies, classical music, nothing happens to put your baby to sleep except the sound of the vacuum cleaner. It sure bores your neighbors but see the advantage: thanks to your baby, your apartment has never been so clean? !
3- We give him ready made pots
A model mother would cook homemade dishes for her baby, spend hours developing new recipes! Not you ! Your baby has all the life to awaken to culinary flavors while you do not have the evening in front of you. To reassure you, know that there are some great little pots! (the Hipp brand in particular).
4- We do not give him bath every day!
That's for sure baby loves to be in his bath. We, we would be crazy to the idea of depriving ourselves of a shower for a day. But let's be realistic, children do not run 100 meters every day. As for most dermatos, they recommend taking a bath to your baby once every 2 days, the skin of an infant being very fragile. So, you will not feel guilty!
5- We sleep baby in bed!
This is not good for the autonomy of the baby, let alone for the intimacy of the couple. But honestly the first months, who has a lot of libido? And if we can avoid getting up 10 times a night, why not go without? Just know that you will take a little longer for your baby to finally sleep alone in his room!
6- We put his child a few minutes in front of the TV!
The TV, it tends to stupefy a little, but it gives us a little time to make a phone call or make a machine. So we do not stress, we just choose an educational program (as on the channel Baby TV), we avoid putting them at 2 centimeters from the screen and we turn off the TV after a few minutes!
7- We do not change his diaper as soon as he pee!
Prepare for the eternal question "Would you like to be left in a wet pan for hours? No, it's safe! But in this case, where is the interest of a layer then? It is marked on the instructions: "Baby can spend 5 hours in his bed". So we can wait a little except obviously if it is the big commission!
8- We put a slight distance with her stepmother!
If you want to see her come out every day, have the right to her education tips, follow our advice! Silence radio for a few weeks. Some will say that it is very bad for the baby to cut him off from his family but we know very well that he will have plenty of time to meet him!
If you follow all our advice, you will go much better and promised, your baby will not be traumatized!
