Help, he keeps his distance. What do I do ?
Romeo falls in love with Juliette. He declares his passion, speaks of the future. A common future seems to be emerging. But overnight, Romeo fled, no longer responds to emails or sms. Leaving Juliet alone and stunned by this sudden change of situation.
The story has nothing to do with a fairy tale, but the reality that many women live on a regular basis.
Why do men behave so?
When Romeo declares his love, he is sincere. He is really in love with you, he wants to spend time and think about a future with you. Problem: the more he is in love, the more he gets scared. He then does one thing he knows well: to flee. He stops sending you messages, refuses your invitations, becomes cold and distant.
Men like Romeo do not know how to love and fear commitment. When they feel that a woman is in love, they have the impression that a trap closes on them. And go away.
Divorced parents, lack of trust in itself ... are the main reasons that push these gentlemen to become phobic of commitment.
How to react ?
The temptation is then great to ask for explanations and to run after Romeo. However, we must strictly do the opposite. Reverse the roles and take the power. He does not give you any more news? No problem, you either.
Be sure of yourself and your assets. If necessary, explain that you have no time to lose with a guy who does not know what he wants and who does not know how to take responsibility. Looking for a man, a real one. Indeed, if it is already leaking, what will happen when you have children?
Avoid depressing
Rather than undermine your morale, move on. Go out, see girlfriends, in short, change your mind. You will show him that you do not need him. Seeing you independent and sure of you, he will not be long in coming back. Because as the saying goes, flee him, he will follow you!
