10 signs that show that your story does not evolve
1) It does not make any room in your life
It's been one, two, five years since you traded your first kiss and yet he still does not assume your relationship. He did not deign to introduce you or his family nor his friends. As if he wanted to keep you at hand - but part time - while refusing the slightest implication ...
2) You have no real plans for the future
And that's not to mention commitment with a large E: you have been dating for centuries but there is no question of apartments or getaways in common, not to mention baby or finger ring. He never discusses these topics and gets angry red when you dare only bring it up with tweezers.
3) You are not synchronous with anything
You may like each other, but the more the months pass, the more you realize that you are not in phase: you are an extrovert who loves to go out and meet people, he is a bear who does not feel good in front of his TV or vice versa, you want to travel the vast world, he swears by the holidays at Papa and Mom etc ... Certainly, opposites attract but in the long run, it wears!
4) You do not seek or more to surprise you
Between you, if there are no or more appointments or surprise gifts, unannounced calls during the day to say sweet words, it is rather ominous. Worrying to live like Raymond and Huguette in Scenes of households when one is twenty or thirty years old!
5) It always lets you be the driving force of the couple
Any joint decision, however small, such as buying a microwave oven or booking a hotel night, is yours. It's up to you to see if you will mother this great narcissistic child all your life!
6) He avoids any attempt at constructive dialogue
If it's been a while since he prefers to scream or, conversely, to wall in the silence rather than discuss with you things that are going well and less well, your love-story does not necessarily take the right path!
7) You do not share the wrongs in case of an argument
It smells so much if in your headaches, everyone is camped on positions, without making concessions or apologize. Few chances and your views come together (one day) ...
8) You tend to get away physically
Where did you get that magnetism that literally magnetized you to each other? Today, you can very well spend whole evenings in the same room, one on his console, the other in front of his TV or in his book, without granting you the slightest glance or the slightest gesture oflove.
9) Your couple rituals are disintegrating
Do you remember when you did the Sunday morning market together? Or take a bath together on Friday night to celebrate the end of your work week? Today, these sweet habits belong to the past or return only very sporadically.
10) You are more casual solo than in duo
Actually, it annoys you more than it makes you happy when you do activities together. He can not stand your girls' chats, you glare at him when he goes into big smoky speeches about tax increases in the middle of a dinner party ... To wonder if you would not do better to make your outings, even your life, separately!
