Swapping, for the better ... or for the worse
Laurence, 39: "A revived libido ..."
"It all started with a sms received by chance, which turned into a game between a stranger and me.I talked to my husband who let me do it.The e-mail exchanges ended up with an appointment you, on condition that the stranger takes his girlfriend or a friend for my spouse.
The meeting was set in a hotel at Futuroscope in Poitiers. We got to know each other by visiting the park and in the evening we returned to the hotel where we rented a comfortable duplex. We spent a hot night each on our side with each other's spouse and we all fell asleep in the same bed.
This experience has revived our libido of couple. We have never been so close and accomplices with my husband. We did not retry the experience because we were looking for each other and we found each other. In conclusion, it is necessary to leave the daily and the routine to maintain the passion and especially to be frank and to talk.
Karine, 24: "A great sexual openness ..."
"I'm 24 years old, and I tried itSwinger by chance during my studies at a party a little watered with two friends (a man and a woman). Everything went very well, probably because nothing was planned or organized!
Four years later, the man with whom I live today, tells me of his sexual openness. It turns out that I'm the same "quenching". By mutual agreement, we decided to look for a couple who would like to practiceSwinger. There is a lot on the net, it's all about finding the one that suits us.
When you really love sex, you have to assume it and test that experience. But it is extremely important to discuss it well in the couplebecause very often one of them accepts to please the other; as if refusing could lead to the break-up of the couple.
In my case everything is going very well, with my friend we dare to tell us everything or almost. I say "almost" because at my level, I still retain enough. I love sex much more than him, I like the idea of number, of novelty, and to confess how much it could scare him ... "
Martine, 49: "Too much difference between fantasy and reality ..."
"With my new companion, we practicedSwinger with knowledge of our neighborhood, but I was very disappointed: sometimes it was me who did not find my account, sometimes my spouse. We tried once in a club and there, new disappointment, because it was more a voyeurism club thanSwinger.
I have the impression that there is often a gap between what we can expect from this practice and the reality ... And then, it takes a minimum of compatibility with the other coupleand it's not easy for everyone. "
Jocelyne, 57: "A destructuring experience ..."
"It was my husband who wanted to, and after a year to talk to me, I finally gave in. He saw a way to go further in our sexuality, and for my part, I I thought it was a solution to keep it in. The first time we went to a club, I felt like it was a rape, I did it very badly, we went back a few times although I I could not see how badly I was living it, and this experience was very destructive for me, it happened over twenty years ago, and I put time to rebuild myself after. couple has been weakened because I was very disappointed, it damaged something of the image I had of me and our couple. TheSwinger killed my ideals on the couple. "
"It all started with a sms received by chance, which turned into a game between a stranger and me.I talked to my husband who let me do it.The e-mail exchanges ended up with an appointment you, on condition that the stranger takes his girlfriend or a friend for my spouse.
The meeting was set in a hotel at Futuroscope in Poitiers. We got to know each other by visiting the park and in the evening we returned to the hotel where we rented a comfortable duplex. We spent a hot night each on our side with each other's spouse and we all fell asleep in the same bed.
This experience has revived our libido of couple. We have never been so close and accomplices with my husband. We did not retry the experience because we were looking for each other and we found each other. In conclusion, it is necessary to leave the daily and the routine to maintain the passion and especially to be frank and to talk.
Karine, 24: "A great sexual openness ..."
"I'm 24 years old, and I tried itSwinger by chance during my studies at a party a little watered with two friends (a man and a woman). Everything went very well, probably because nothing was planned or organized!
Four years later, the man with whom I live today, tells me of his sexual openness. It turns out that I'm the same "quenching". By mutual agreement, we decided to look for a couple who would like to practiceSwinger. There is a lot on the net, it's all about finding the one that suits us.
When you really love sex, you have to assume it and test that experience. But it is extremely important to discuss it well in the couplebecause very often one of them accepts to please the other; as if refusing could lead to the break-up of the couple.
In my case everything is going very well, with my friend we dare to tell us everything or almost. I say "almost" because at my level, I still retain enough. I love sex much more than him, I like the idea of number, of novelty, and to confess how much it could scare him ... "
Martine, 49: "Too much difference between fantasy and reality ..."
"With my new companion, we practicedSwinger with knowledge of our neighborhood, but I was very disappointed: sometimes it was me who did not find my account, sometimes my spouse. We tried once in a club and there, new disappointment, because it was more a voyeurism club thanSwinger.
I have the impression that there is often a gap between what we can expect from this practice and the reality ... And then, it takes a minimum of compatibility with the other coupleand it's not easy for everyone. "
Jocelyne, 57: "A destructuring experience ..."
"It was my husband who wanted to, and after a year to talk to me, I finally gave in. He saw a way to go further in our sexuality, and for my part, I I thought it was a solution to keep it in. The first time we went to a club, I felt like it was a rape, I did it very badly, we went back a few times although I I could not see how badly I was living it, and this experience was very destructive for me, it happened over twenty years ago, and I put time to rebuild myself after. couple has been weakened because I was very disappointed, it damaged something of the image I had of me and our couple. TheSwinger killed my ideals on the couple. "
