nefertiti I'm in a relationship for 5 years and I really want to try with another woman, but I do not want to betray my husband's trust. How to do ?
Brigitte Lahaie : If you want to try alone, obviously, you betray a little confidence of your husband. You have to think carefully, if it's really a desire to make love to another woman, you need to understand your relationship and your husband's reaction. Some men can react more or less well ...

liliclaire : Is it necessary to create the lack to make a relationship last?
Brigitte Lahaie : Desire feeds on lack. You must have the impression that the other does not belong to you to always want to win back ... We must be aware that the other can escape us.

clo : I am attracted by a man whom I do not know much about and who does not know me very much either. Yet I feel a reciprocal attraction in our eyes ... and I dare not go further ... Could you help me?
Brigitte Lahaie : Distrust because you are overwhelmed by your emotions and you can misinterpret ... it is always better to let the man take the first step but you can always ask him for information in this case he can seize the opportunity. ..

titi : HAVE YOU BEEN THE FANTASY OF MANY MEN? HOW DO YOU LIVE IT? Thank you.
Brigitte Lahaie : Well, very good ... It has repaired the impression I had not be very beautiful.

Jonathan What books or people have influenced your life?
Brigitte Lahaie : The books of Krishna Mourti, Freud, Arroyo, and more recently Willy Bazini.

matt8320 : I am a man and I wonder what gives a woman a blowjob?
Brigitte Lahaie : Fun or disgust ... It's a bit like a man who makes a cunnilingus ... pleasure to please the other, we must accept the idea.

pascal : how to celebrate Valentine's Day as best as possible when you are 46, married for 18 years and still in love?
Brigitte Lahaie : An original way ... Play the game as if you came to meet, surprise by playing another character, dress differently!

eric : What's the gaffe not to do for a Valentine's night?
Brigitte Lahaie : Do not insist on the duration of your relationship, look to the future rather than the past ... Avoid allusion or comparison too!

sebastien : hello I know more how to make my wife want to make love because it looks like it is an obligation but after when we start, it is released a little. But it makes me uncomfortable.
Brigitte Lahaie : In summary, you have to go back to the time when it worked well and see why it became what it is today, it must react in any case!

snoopy | : do you think that access to the net (dating site, exhibition, etc.) is the main cause of infidelity?
Brigitte Lahaie : There is a multiplication of possibilities and we have lifted the ban today. But infidelity has always existed ... With the net, one is perhaps unfaithful without really measuring the consequences ...

lilie : how to make her husband understand the desire for sodomy?
Brigitte Lahaie : You have to come to tell him that you can welcome him differently, he should understand!

bahamas : my friend has problems to hold his erection, what do you advise me? What should be my attitude? Should I push him to consult?
Brigitte Lahaie : If it's just a problem of erection, you can of course consult ... the famous pills of love can restart the machine, do not let it hang around ... Anxiety can harm your long-term relationship.

Teddy : I always put a lot of time before orgasm (1 hour of relationship) and my friend is happy but also complains sometimes because it's a long time, what can I do?
Brigitte Lahaie : It's a real problem: it's harder to shorten than to lengthen ... We have to see if with the excitement, you can shorten this time ... There is no cure ...

Pierre : How to tell his wife that we made a stupidity, that was cheated but that it was a mistake ??? Is it better to say nothing?
Brigitte Lahaie : It's better not to say anything. But beware, if the guilt is eating away at you should talk to a shrink, or someone ... otherwise, you'll end up admitting ...If it was not important, what is the importance of saying it ??

charles : What do you look at first in a man?
Brigitte Lahaie : The eyes, no doubt!

Bo : What do you think men like the most?
Brigitte Lahaie : In love, I think they are a bit like women, they like to feel wanted ...

eric62 : What do you think of virtual love (web cam among others)?
Brigitte Lahaie : I think it can be nice but if you get addicted, it proves that it is difficult to commit and it can clearly become a drug.

lover92 : I have a problem with my girlfriend, I have no problem with erection but as soon as I want to put a condom I am no longer erect. What to do ?
Brigitte Lahaie : You can try the female condom, otherwise the easiest way is to train yourself.

cricri : Hello ! I am 17 years old and I do not like relationships that last. I prefer to flirt with guys that I like and who love me but I do not sleep with. Could this have negative consequences on my adult life?
Brigitte Lahaie : For the moment no, you need to assert yourself, to seduce, it's flirting so you do not really put yourself in danger. There is certainly a fear of commitment and of the man who can hurt in every sense of the word.

Julia : do you think that being still a virgin at age 27 is a hindrance to sexual fulfillment in the future?
Brigitte Lahaie : Not necessarily, no experience is sometimes better than a negative experience. Learn to assert yourself and be better in your body.

Lola : I am always attracted by men who make me suffer, physically and morally ... Do you have an explanation?
Brigitte Lahaie : There is certainly an explanation related to your childhood, your father who was violent ... If you are not aware, talk about it in your family ... it is healing. Be aware, this is the beginning of healing.

zouzoute : why do we have so much trouble to accept a blowjob and there are various methods (I know the harmonica .....)
Brigitte Lahaie : For what reasons, it is difficult for you, inhibitions related to education, the fear that it is dirty ... It is not necessary to force you, to use your hands or your breasts, before having desire to use the mouth...

Noella : Does bisexuality really exist?
Brigitte Lahaie : Obviously, we are all bisexual, at the beginning, we all loved our father and our mother. But it is at the level of fantasy, we do not all act out ... We are not in boxes.

MEG : FOR YOU LOVE IS WHAT?
Brigitte Lahaie : For me love is the spice. When you eat a dish without spices, it's normal, but if you add salt and pepper, it's much better. Love is the little thing more that carries us.

bibounette : how do we know that we suffer from anorgasmia?
Brigitte Lahaie : We know when we have an orgasm. If we do not have the feeling, it's because we did not have any. If you have fun, orgasm is not far.

nemo_06 : Hello. Double penetration attracts me. I have more and more envy but still it would be necessary for my husband to talk to me about it. How to make him understand ? liv 34 years
Brigitte Lahaie : Buy already an intimate toy and then introduce it into your antics ...

isa59179 : how to make pregnant love?
Brigitte Lahaie : It is especially at the end of pregnancy: avoid the missionary, but the position of the small spoons is ideal.

jojolol : which is the public man that you find the sexiest? Who is the public woman you find the sexiest?
Brigitte Lahaie : Richard Gere, I have a weakness for a long time! Daphne Roulier, she has a charm ...

snoopy : You were the idol of a generation a few years ago. Me now I really appreciate Ovidie. Do not you think that actress styles have changed dramatically in recent years?
Brigitte Lahaie : No, Clara Morgane remains in the lineage of what I was. Ovidie is a little apart. Their plastic is in any case quite advantageous!

pascal : how to make his wife understand that she goes too far and that we do not want to do some things that she asks ...
Brigitte Lahaie : Simply by setting limits ... You are afraid that it goes elsewhere ... but dare to respect you! It's simple!

noxys : My wife sees sexual intercourse as a thing thawed and animal, how to make him change his mind about the thing?
Brigitte Lahaie : It is necessary to start from scratch with a lot of tenderness and cuddles while avoiding a little the genitals, to leave the place with the desire without fear. At the time of intercourse, you can leave a panties, she will feel protected, and without improvement, you must consult.

lemmy : Why do not girls like to watch porn?
Brigitte Lahaie : For several reasons. The vision is the excitatory sense par excellence of men and the movies really correspond to male fantasies. But the woman is not very visual at the level of excitement, she prefers literature, erotic novels.

john : Is there still a theme that you are blocking in terms of sex?
Brigitte Lahaie : Pedophilia is a subject I do not want to react to.

nefertiti : my husband goes to porn sites and also buys magazines like this, is he forced to watch it to want to make love with me, does he really want me?
Brigitte Lahaie : It's not the same thing. He loves you and wants you but needs to watch movies and read magazines, to evacuate a more animal sexuality. It's precisely because he respects you that he does not share that with you.

yoko : Hello, I lost my chest after breastfeeding my two children. I know you're not a doctor, but I wanted to know if it happens often and especially .... if it still comes a day! Thank you !
Brigitte Lahaie : It's unlikely to change if you stopped breastfeeding for more than 6 months.

puss : I think sodomy hurts. How to stop hurting?
Brigitte Lahaie : Stop! It is necessary to be better prepared, very often the man acts, or if the woman has pain, she must act, choose the moment and the speed of introduction. Get ready with a lubricant or a small sex toy ...

titi : what memory do you keep from your X years?
Brigitte Lahaie : Rather good memories, it was a carefree period, very fun, I lived fully things.

baptist : will you publish a book soon?
Brigitte Lahaie : I have a book in preparation with someone who deals with childhood, on the importance of childhood in adult sexuality.

sensual : Are we ejaculating less with age?
Brigitte Lahaie : In principle all our organs slow down with age and including this one!

lilie : Can you give me some tips to become a sexiest woman during love?
Brigitte Lahaie : It is necessary to train alone, very often one is afraid of being ridiculous with a man so it is necessary to have fun alone in front of its ice cream so that it becomes more natural and one can then let loose in bed!

zortol : I have been with my girlfriend for a few months and I can not make her come she is vaginal how to do for what pleasure?
Brigitte Lahaie : You need to learn how to last longer, use your fingers to stimulate the G-spot.

didou : I want to know if jerking too often is dangerous?
Brigitte Lahaie : No, provided you do not exceed three times a day because it can become a drug ...

lila : I had a relationship with a man for 1 year and he asked me to go with him in swingers clubs. Since then, I have a blockage for me he does not like me because if he loved me he would not ask me that!
Brigitte Lahaie : You do not have the same vision of love, if for you love and sex are indissociable and exclusive, for him they are separable and your companion can agree to share you with other sexes.

nanapower : My friend never said "I love you" why? Is it because he does not love me? I would like to understand because we have been together for three years.
Brigitte Lahaie : Three years, he likes you but he surely has trouble pronouncing the words. It's easier to ask the question, "do you want to stay with me?" ...

Thank you for all your questions! Find me on my blog on which I will distill some information ... Happy Valentine's Day to all!

Brigitte Lahaie 1977 (April 2024)