Testimonials: They cheated on their half
After three years spent in mornings, Nicolas and Maryne (30 years old both) had a rather dark period in their lives. couple life. The routine, the cohabitation, and the lassitude related to all these elements did not help to tie up the little couple. Maryne remembers: "Everything was monotonous and yet we loved each other, but it had become super bland, and at a party, a very cute guy dragged me in. Nico was not there. told me "Fortunately!" and I ended the evening with him, and we slept together, and the next day I felt very angry, so I decided to talk to Nico about it. thinks everything. "
Nicolas was very upset at first by Maryne's announcement. But they both found the courage to face this ordeal, because, in the words of Nicolas, "We did not want to ruin our relationship because of all that. We loved each other at the base. Maryne's lurch proved to be a trigger in the duo. They realized that their story was short, for the wrong reasons. And by mutual agreement (not without pain) they hung on, and explored problem by problem, in order to find a solution at all. They did well: their story has been going on for 5 years now. And the baby project is launched!
Guillaume is 33 years old. And he is very bitter about his experience. He says he was experiencing something very strong with Violaine. They stayed 9 months together. "I openly dredged a girl I liked, but I was very much in love with Violaine, but I was not careful, I slept with this girl, Violaine knew it and she took it very badly. She left me very quickly, I did not understand anything, it's a thing of the past, but when I think about it, I regret to have ruined this story because it would surely have been worth it. "
It is obvious that in the case of Guillaume, flirting (or more) with someone else took on its full dimension when his darling left. As he explains, at the time it was light years away to realize the consequences that this gap was going to have on his relationship with Violaine. "The fact that she left like that, it slammed me! And that's after that I thought."
Agatha gives us a secret. She is 27 years old and she has been in a relationship with S. for 2 years and a half. She is in love with him, but despite that, he has had two or three times to "afford a parenthesis". She says that she feels the need to seduce her man but also others. So she has already done it: "I prefer not to say anything to him because it is obvious that it would hurt him, and because it would have no interest for our relationship." It's still something exceptional and I'm good with S., even though I've already cheated on him, it's my seductive side I think. "
Agathe admits to being aware of playing with fire, but for her it's a real way to be a woman, and that's how she likes to live. couple life : "The mistake is human and I think that every woman has the right to her secret little garden!"
There is no rule in love. These various testimonials demonstrate that we are all different in the face of passionate love, and that everyone lives the test of couples in his own way. Whatever happens, staying upright is certainly the best rule to follow ...
And do not be paranoid, there are also couples who only have eyes for their own!
