This summer I find a lover: do's and don'ts
What has to be done :
Take an interest in him. Ask him questions about what he does in life, his passions, his hobbies, his travels. Testify of interest. It will be flattering to see that you are not one of those who speak only of them.
Laugh. This first date is the beginning, who knows, of a beautiful story. Relax and laugh! He will not be able to resist your freshness and your joy of living.
At the end of the dinner do not wait until he draws his credit card. Get out of your bag, your wallet. Even if your new lover should you offer to pay the bill, you never know. He will see that he is not facing a venal woman he will have to maintain.
What you should not do :
Do not ask him to tell you his last disappointment in love. You and he are the present and who knows maybe the future. For this first night, it is useless to go back to the past, you will surely have other opportunities, much later, to do so.
Ditto for you, do not bask with your ex and everything that made you suffer, he could catch scared!
To be negative: avoid all the formulas of the style: "I do not like ..", "I hate", "I can not stand .." that could make you look like a complicated girl.
