To love again, you have to believe it!
"All these years shared was part of my story"
"I'm 58 years old, four grandchildren and eight grandchildren, my husband died in a mountain accident 14 years ago, it took me more than two years to mourn, a time when I was gone I wanted nothing, where I felt I was amputated from a part of myself.
After Jacques' death, I thought my life was behind me. I devoted myself to my children. But even if the relationship we have with her children is wonderful, she does not fulfill the love of a spouse.
After the time of mourning came the one, for a decade, of the sentimental, sexual and emotional desert. At that time, so as not to be locked in solitude, I invested myself in an association as a volunteer. That's where I knew Christian. He came to me gradually. I was both very touched by his gentleness, his kindness, but reluctant to the idea of a relationship. I had good reasons: he was married (separating) and I was ten years older than him.
In fact, I think I was scared: was I still able to love? What would my children think? How to love another while remaining faithful to the memory of Jacques? ...
And then one day, I understood that I will not forget anything, that all the happiness of a love of twenty-two years shared was part of my story.
More and more, I felt reviving in the company of Christian, I finally allowed myself to love him. Since then, life is more beautiful. Christian's love rejuvenates me, makes me feel woman and alive. As for my children, they welcomed him with joy and are grateful to him for making their mother so happy! "
Anne, 58 years old
"The happiness of loving again has overcome the difficulties"
"I have a big 18-year-old boy who was very young, his dad turned out to be a" youth mistake "and I found myself alone raising Pablo. I was fortunate to have parents and friends who were always there, who always helped and supported me, and Pablo always filled me with happiness and pride. edition, and the possibility of organizing myself according to my son.
For years, my love life has been close to zero, interspersed with wobbly stories with tormented or immature men. I had come to think that love as I dreamed (simple, fulfilling and long-term) was not for me.
Until a friend four years ago introduced me to Benoît. It immediately pleased me. We gradually fell in love with each other. At fifty, Benoît was the father of two grand daughters of a first marriage. His wife had left him overnight. It remained deeply bruised even though their divorced had passed in good intelligence.
In four years, our love has taken root. Our "foolish" stories had both weakened us, making us doubt sometimes, but the happiness of loving again, deeply, was right of the difficulties. It was also necessary to be accepted by the children of the other ... Everything was not simple, far from it. But today we have a little boy of one year whose Pablo and Benoît's daughters are stiff crazy. We got married last summer and we are now a big stepfamily happy family! "
Sophie, 41 years old
"With two babies, the chances of rebuilding my life were almost nil!"
"My husband left me when my first baby was 18 months old, I was 6 months pregnant with the second baby, close together, both wanted after 12 years together, and one day, nothing. found alone, stunned.
After the shock, I thought that with two babies, the chances of rebuilding my life were almost nil. Which man could accept that?
And then two years ago, I met Didier. Gentle, protective, sincerely in love and great with the kids, he came back little by little in my life and that of our family. We got married two months ago and we are expecting a baby. I did not think there were still men like him! "
Catherine, 35 years old
