Couple: dare to take the first step after an argument
An argument may have a variety of causes in the couple life : jealousy, small annoyances or a deeper discomfort ... At first, rest assured, the disputes reflect the vitality of your relationship. But once triggered, then consumed, we must also consider extinguish the embers ...
An argument is not a duel. Knowing how to take the first step is also going beyond one's pride. To make better progress, learn to recognize your wrong and if you are not responsible for what started the fight, nothing prevents you to take the first step and to start a discussion, it is a sign of maturity and wisdom.
After an argument, ask yourself about the deeper reasons for your discord, especially if your arguments are still around the same theme. Empty your bag once and for all and move on!
Once the storm is over, sometimes a nice attention, a loving gesture are enough to defuse a conflict situation ...
Others prefer to reconcile on the pillow. Indeed, why put words on a disagreement, while it is easier to evacuate the stress with a hug and tender gestures.
If it's too difficult for you to talk to your other half to begin a reconciliation, let the storm pass and address him a little word or a letter to express your regrets and to say to him that you like it, in general, these small gestures always make their effect!
Our advice
If your arguments are tiring and damaging to your relationship, why not consider a couple therapy? If accusations and reproaches persist, this form of therapy can guide you and help you put together pieces together and manage your emotions.
An argument is not a duel. Knowing how to take the first step is also going beyond one's pride. To make better progress, learn to recognize your wrong and if you are not responsible for what started the fight, nothing prevents you to take the first step and to start a discussion, it is a sign of maturity and wisdom.
After an argument, ask yourself about the deeper reasons for your discord, especially if your arguments are still around the same theme. Empty your bag once and for all and move on!
Once the storm is over, sometimes a nice attention, a loving gesture are enough to defuse a conflict situation ...
Others prefer to reconcile on the pillow. Indeed, why put words on a disagreement, while it is easier to evacuate the stress with a hug and tender gestures.
If it's too difficult for you to talk to your other half to begin a reconciliation, let the storm pass and address him a little word or a letter to express your regrets and to say to him that you like it, in general, these small gestures always make their effect!
Our advice
If your arguments are tiring and damaging to your relationship, why not consider a couple therapy? If accusations and reproaches persist, this form of therapy can guide you and help you put together pieces together and manage your emotions.
