April 26, 2024

Fantasies of men versus fantasies of women: what makes us different

What excites us? What excites them? Here are some answers to take into consideration ...

  

On the side of men

Triolism and more if affinities: At the top of the list of hot dreams boys, we can first mention the threesome, three-eyed sex, in which they will usually dream with two women rather than with a women and another man. Because it is not good to have a rival in bed, he was chimerical! In the same vein, men are also stimulated by the scenarios of square part (two couples who mix) or outright carnal orgies. And yes, the more we are crazy, the more we laugh!


The woman-object: Even if it hurts our souls as feminists, we must not ignore the fact that our men are also attracted to the idea of ​​a creature that would be up for running all their desiresescort girls or geishas of modern times.
  

Submission in all its forms : Finally, even if they are modern guys who clear the table and know how to turn a washing machine, they keep, deep in them, the good old fantasy of the dominant. When their mind wanders, they love to believe that they could whip us, tie us, force us to fellatio or sodomy. A type of fantasy which could be - at least in theory - shared by some of us, if we believe the success of 50 shades of Gray.
 

On the women's side

The light exhibition : their senses seem more flabbergasted by other styles of visions. Know it, gentlemen: your women, your fiancées, your girlfriends love to make movies where they imagine making love in a public place, very frequented preferably. With additional peppers, the risk of being surprised or even the pleasure of being mater deliberately, among the most stamped ...

swinging : Other fantasy which is popular among girls, the idea to upset the conjugal routine, to exchange sex-rituals head-to-head sex with Cheri to experience these places of libertinage where the bodies mix and melt all over the place in joy and a good mood.

 

The quickie with a stranger: Whether they are sexually fulfilled or not, it also turns out that the prospect of an unplanned embrace with a man of passage acts as a powerful aphrodisiac on most women. If he looks like Jude Law, Ryan Gosling or Georges Clooney, it's even better!

Love of will or strength : Finally, the most taboo of these dreams, that the women only confess with their lips, is that they are forced to make love without their consent. Rest assured: it is not to be interpreted in the first degree because it does not translate a fantasy of rape but a desire to be desired.



How Men's and Women's Sex Fantasies Compare - From Tell Me What You Want by Dr. Justin Lehmiller (April 2024)