April 27, 2024

Seduction: how he made you crack

Caroline, 34 years old
«Question seductionPierre was perfect. He especially seduced me with his voice, very pleasant, warm and posed, because we knew each other by phone in the course of the work (him in Paris, me in Marseille).
Then when I met him, his (velvety) look, his pretty dyed complexion, his way of listening, his tastes, his frankness (his loyalty), his simplicity ... made me immediately want to spend time with him, a lot of time!
Six years later and a child, I have the impression that he has always been part of my life, even though I have not forgotten the suffering of past relationships. I think I have the chance to be with a man who brings me positive waves, to me to seize and transform them well ... "

Marion, 36 years old
"I was seduced by his intelligence, his calm and his patience with me at first. He got a little bored, but he always continued to trust me without ever judging me and it touched me a lot. I love her laughter, her simplicity, her natural happy and youthful.
I do not remember saying to myself one day "he is the man of my life". For me, we can only say that kind of thing at the twilight of an existence. I hope to say, at 80, that he has become the man of my life.
Today, I can only say that we have chosen each other for life and that we become, day by day, the man and the woman of the life of the other.
But I remember very well one day when we lay side by side daydreaming. He just told me he wanted to spend all his life with me. I answered "me too" without thinking. I was deeply surprised and happy to hear myself say that. It was like a revelation.

Laurène, 32 years old
"At first, when we were still in the phase seductionI admit to having been on the defensive. I had known some boys who were rather of the dark macho style who try to impose or party revelers who talk constantly of their best friends and their evenings of drinking ... And here, Frédéric appears to me like a pearl rare. I had to get used to the fact that a boy can be considerate. He dressed my wounds one by one and attenuated my anxieties. He was sweet, sensitive, spoke "future" (but not too much) and why not "children" ... All that made me take to the wheel before.
Life with two, the couple, the routine, the fact of making projects ..., more broadly all that concerned the commitment which seemed to me insurmountable and which, with him, seemed to me so simple, very quickly made me think that it was the man of my life.

Marie, 27 years old
"The first time I saw Philippe I found him canon, he was all tanned with blue eyes and black hair, I admit that is what made me crack. After the physical side, I discovered a man full of fantasy, very sociable. I fell madly in love. And him too. Finally a man who knew the word " seduction ". He left me little words of love everywhere. I needed to meet a man like him to free me from my somewhat rigid education. Finally I lived, I left my mold. He did not correspond at all to the men I should have known from my education. I was finishing my pharmacy studies, where boys are not always as funny as we imagine. "

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