It is not easy to digest a break when you are childless, but when there is, everything becomes immediately complicated. Once you live in two different homes, you have to organize the schedule of your guard, shared custody or not, you will have to make the idea that you will not see your children every day at home. you ... you have to share with dad. Passed tears, anxiety attacks and all the rest, please! Tell yourself that you will have free time (besides, you do not even know what it means). And yes, you will be able to go out with friends, join the sports club, go to the movies without breaking the bank in babysitter ... and go hunting for the new man of your life.

Men of today, too, are dads singles. Today's society is seeing more and more stepfamily families come together.

If you think that being a mom will repel them, think again !!!
From the very first date, put the pear and the cheese between you and your mother. Either he flees, pretexting an urge and he lets you pay the bill (no regrets, it's a joke), or he smiles and asks you lots of questions about your child ... better, he asks you downright if You have a photo. This one, quickly put the hook on it, you must not let go.

However, once you have broached the subject, do not become eternal. For example, do not tell him in detail about your episiotomy and that famous night when Lilou vomited you because she was sick. Save him the details. You'll have plenty of time to tell him all that.

Men love moms singles for various reasons :
- It means that they are women who do not shrink from responsibilities
- They will not drink them from the 3rd meeting with their famous biological clock.

Wait for your relationship to be a minimum installed before introducing everyone. It is better to preserve the little heart of your cherubim.

Testimony of Lou-Anne, 39

Since when are you single ?
I divorced my husband after 12 years of marriage last year.

And you have children?
Yes, two, an 8 year old boy and a 10 year old girl.

And today, are you in a relationship?
Yes, for 8 months now.

Did you have trouble finding someone?
At first, yes, a little but it was only my fault, I was afraid to embark my children in a love story, they attach to my boyfriend and that ends.

And everything is going well?
Everything is going well, Paul (my boyfriend) loves my kids and is almost as involved as their father. He leads them to activities, corrects homework with them. That's great !

 

 

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