My ex, I see him or not?
Before taking the phone, remember your love story with your ex. Was it nirvana or on the contrary a real ordeal? Who broke up: you or him? And what was the reason given?
If you broke up, it's because you had your reasons. And good ones. No need to take your handset, it's a safe bet that Jules has not changed. By calling him and agreeing to see him again, you will only repeat the same pattern as in the past.
He says he has changed and begs you to accept a coffee? If you have suffered from this relationship, give up this appointment and focus on the future. Revisiting an ex can indeed revive old wounds. Meet other men, and start a new story that will not have the same liabilities.
Be sure of yourself and your feelings
On the other hand, if you are still in love with your ex, if you left him, why not contact him again? However, be sure of yourself and your feelings before you start. It's not about breaking the heart of your partner a second time.
Clarify the situation with your Apollo. What do you expect from this love story: a simple carnal relationship or a beautiful story oflove ?
Then, go step by step. Get to know yourself, see if you have changed, and if you are ready to go back on a good foundation. Also, find out if you have a common future. And know how to stop the story quickly, to avoid hurting yourself again.
Go ahead slowly, take your time. And above all, do not reproduce the same mistakes as in the past. Adopt a more mature approach, so that this time, your love story lasts a lifetime.
