Recouch with his ex, is it a good idea?
Nostalgia when you hold us...
Months that you push this coffee with your ex, see you later. Not ready, you were definitely not ready. Too many feelings for him yet. He had to succeed in really forgetting to see him as if nothing had happened. And you have held on! You even have a new boyfriend for some time. Okay, it's not there yetlove crazy, but that's a good sign ... You have taken another step.
And since you thought you were strong enough for this famous coffee, then you said yes.
Only now, hardly has it happened that your little heart has flinched again. Incredible but true. After all this time, these laborious efforts and this huge work on yourself, back to the starting point of the attraction. Unbearable but very real.
You listen halfway, think back to all these moments spent together. It was beautiful, it was good ... You dream awake. The nostalgia invades you and magnifies a little more your past history. It's crazy but the memory only holds the good moments of a history oflove. As if the arguments, the suffering of the break had never existed.
And yet what an emotional trap that rebasculate in the nostalgia of a love story ...
Very quickly comes the desire to kiss him, to be near him. Like before. These sensations miss you. The smell of his skin. And all the rest ... Suddenly, you come back to earth and you still remember that it did not work between you for many good reasons and that it can not work. It's an impossible story, you two.
But it attracts you it's like that. So you're thinking: what if we burrowed together in memory of the good old days, just like that, just once?
Warning: dangerous game!
It really has to be clear in your head. If you still have feelings for your ex, do not rest with him. You will tie again. It is obvious.
Worse, you may suffer and blame yourself for having "plunged back" when you have almost turned the page. But the sad thing is that if you sleep together, it may even seem very bland ... Yes, your feelings have evolved and you will never find the intensity of your past history, even physically.
It will finally be a simple part of legs in the air.
Finally, a doubt may invade you: and if you had just used to have a good time? What if you were just a sex object for him?
Mutual respect must be the rule
Of course, it is also possible that we sleep with his ex and it goes very well. An ex can even become the best sex friend of the earth. After all, who knows you better than him?
The condition for such a relationship to work: absolute honesty. You must not have any feeling for each other and respect each other. Another rule: as soon as one of them begins to attach, it must immediately talk to the other and stop. To sleep with someone in order to keep him for a more stable relationship is really to fool oneself and go straight into the wall.
Finally, it is very well that by seeing you again, a mutual attachment is born and that you recover together for good. Yes, it happens. But it is rare.
So be frank with yourself! At worst, there is always your sextoy. He will never break your heart, that's for sure ...
