Why is it hard to be naked during love?
Those who prefer to turn off the lamp
A survey conducted a few years ago by the IFOP institute shows that 45% of women have a predilection for sex that takes place in the dark. Even more surprising, nearly one in five does not undress completely when she shares naughty moments with her partner. Why this extreme timidity towards the one who knows us intimately? The first explanation for this phenomenon is first of all the little tenderness one has towards oneself, especially concerning one's body. We have the impression that the light undresses us and highlights all that we would like to hide, in this case our buoy around the belly, our cellulite of the upper thighs, our drooping breasts or our muscles too muscular. Which is often a mistake because theman of our life sees us as a whole (sexy) and not as an assembly of spare parts ...
A kind of scholarly duplication
A complex that some women develop to the point of being spectators of themselves during love, if they do so in broad daylight. Instead of enjoying the sensations that the moment offers them, they constantly wonder if the positions they adopt are flattering or not for her. Hence their difficulty in letting go, not to mention reaching orgasm. Inhibitions they do not have when they make hugs with the switch off ... Finally, some of them find the anatomy of theman unattractive even ridiculous, especially when it is erect.
Those who love to turn it back on
No matter the lighting, provided you have ecstasy, will you be tempted to answer me ... The concern is that boys are particularly sensitive to visual stimuli. The blossoming of pornographic films testifies to this: they need to look at your breasts, your buttocks, to contemplate you too when you experience pleasure. In the long run, the difference between what you like and what makes your charming clip vibrate may be a problem.
The right compromise for beginners
To find common ground, several solutions are possible. Agree to integrate the light in small doses when you make love by scattering four or five candles in the room. They will broadcast a discreet halo that will show only the best of you. If you take the insurance, you can then increase their number, as your erotic explorations ... And if you feel good only in complete darkness, buy a nice embroidered wolf and ask your partner to blindfold you. He will see everything while you work your imagination.
