Manipulator, speaker ... Why do I always fall on the same men?
If one often falls in love with the same type ofmanis that this profile speaks to us particularly. It returns to us a known, reassuring image or that of a fantasy. Often, we look in the other a mirror. It sends us back our own image or the one we would like to reflect. Moreover, it is not uncommon to declare: "You are my double" or "You are theman that I would have liked to be ".
Another me
Take a closer look at the profile of your old conquests. And observe their similarities. Do you still fall in love with an artist? Maybe you dream of getting on the boards ... You would have loved to be an astronaut? As a result, you only send the drivers.
Moreover, these men are they demanding? Selfish or lost? Then, ask yourself. How did your father behave when you were a kid? Was he also selfish? So many indications that can help you to see more clearly on the reasons for your love choices.
On the other hand, by choosing a man very far from you, you wish to break with your past. By being of confession, of culture or of different origin, your lover thus allows you to break the parental model.
How not to fall back into the trap?
To avoid reproducing the same pattern, it is essential to work on oneself. To recognize the models that we want to break and the profiles that make us crack.
Of course, it's not about bridling your feelings. But to identify the reasons that lead you to choose this standard rather than another. In order to make an informed choice.
Boost your confidence too. By being well in your skin, you will attract men good in their sneakers too. No more lost! Be sure of your charm, your intelligence and your assets. You will only be more radiant. And unearth the rare pearl.
