Sexuality: he asked you for a weird "thing"
Frédérique, 36 years old
"He asked me to masturbate in front of him, I did not immediately accept, but little by little, the idea got its way and one day he did not expect it, I told him offered this great moment of confidence and I was very happy to do so because we both took a lot of pleasureand the fact that he looks at me makes me even more excited. Since then, I do not hesitate anymore! "
Aurélie, 32 years old
"I had to be 22 or 23 years old, at a friend's house I met a man older than me. I was in love and soon we became lovers. While we had to make love five or six times more, one night he asked me to massage his anus, then to enter a finger. I was young and did not know much about sex, it disgusted me and I refused. I never wanted to see him again. Since none man did not ask me that kind of thing. I think this is the first time I talk about it. I have always felt shame every time I thought about it. "
Marie-Pierre, 32 years old
"Today it amuses me when I mention this story, but at the time it had somewhat disturbed me. The boy I had been dating for three months wanted to ejaculate on my face. I found it disgusting, there is no other word and I refused. We discussed it together afterwards and I told him that if he liked this kind of trip he had to find another girl. From that night I was never relaxed when we made love. We separated three weeks later. "
Valérie, 35 years old
"I already had several lovers, but never one man did not ask me to suck her nipples. I found this very weird, for me it was an act that theman had to do to a woman, not the other way around. I acceded to his desire, but frankly I did not take any pleasurehe, yes. After ten years together, it always annoys me as much when he suggests it to me! "
Christine, 45 years old
"One day, about ten years ago, he came back home happy and told me that he had a present for me, I was delighted. Less when I discovered what it was: a dildo. He absolutely wanted me to try it in front of him. At the moment it panicked me, I thought that in fact I attended a pervert, besides I told him. Then, about ten days later while we were making love and we were excited, he went to get him. I used it to make him pleasure. In fact I took a pleasure crazy, since we start again regularly. "
What is the opinion of Dr. Sylvain Mimoun, gynecologist and andrologist
Are there limits, forbidden in the field of sexuality?
When both partners are willing, there is no forcing on the part of one or the other, there is no prohibition.
The degree of excitement in which you find yourself at the time or the other offers something will really influence your decision. It all depends on who is going to ask you. If it's a man of passage, without real affective relation a particular act can seem strange, even perverse. But if the excitement is there, that it's part of the game of love you'll be able to get into it and take some pleasure. Whereas a few hours ago just thinking about it, you would have found it dirty.
Attention, if theman needs particular practices each time to achieve enjoyment, this is not normal. It must remain episodic, that it is part of a game in love. I repeat, nothing must be mandatory or systematic.
Why do men like to see their wife masturbate?
It must be known that this is a very frequent request from them. Women do not dare to do this, but this remains one of the greatest stimuli for them. A man likes to watch a woman caress herself, see how she does it, how she takes it pleasure. Today, however, it is less perceived as a bizarre act.
"He asked me to masturbate in front of him, I did not immediately accept, but little by little, the idea got its way and one day he did not expect it, I told him offered this great moment of confidence and I was very happy to do so because we both took a lot of pleasureand the fact that he looks at me makes me even more excited. Since then, I do not hesitate anymore! "
Aurélie, 32 years old
"I had to be 22 or 23 years old, at a friend's house I met a man older than me. I was in love and soon we became lovers. While we had to make love five or six times more, one night he asked me to massage his anus, then to enter a finger. I was young and did not know much about sex, it disgusted me and I refused. I never wanted to see him again. Since none man did not ask me that kind of thing. I think this is the first time I talk about it. I have always felt shame every time I thought about it. "
Marie-Pierre, 32 years old
"Today it amuses me when I mention this story, but at the time it had somewhat disturbed me. The boy I had been dating for three months wanted to ejaculate on my face. I found it disgusting, there is no other word and I refused. We discussed it together afterwards and I told him that if he liked this kind of trip he had to find another girl. From that night I was never relaxed when we made love. We separated three weeks later. "
Valérie, 35 years old
"I already had several lovers, but never one man did not ask me to suck her nipples. I found this very weird, for me it was an act that theman had to do to a woman, not the other way around. I acceded to his desire, but frankly I did not take any pleasurehe, yes. After ten years together, it always annoys me as much when he suggests it to me! "
Christine, 45 years old
"One day, about ten years ago, he came back home happy and told me that he had a present for me, I was delighted. Less when I discovered what it was: a dildo. He absolutely wanted me to try it in front of him. At the moment it panicked me, I thought that in fact I attended a pervert, besides I told him. Then, about ten days later while we were making love and we were excited, he went to get him. I used it to make him pleasure. In fact I took a pleasure crazy, since we start again regularly. "
What is the opinion of Dr. Sylvain Mimoun, gynecologist and andrologist
Are there limits, forbidden in the field of sexuality?
When both partners are willing, there is no forcing on the part of one or the other, there is no prohibition.
The degree of excitement in which you find yourself at the time or the other offers something will really influence your decision. It all depends on who is going to ask you. If it's a man of passage, without real affective relation a particular act can seem strange, even perverse. But if the excitement is there, that it's part of the game of love you'll be able to get into it and take some pleasure. Whereas a few hours ago just thinking about it, you would have found it dirty.
Attention, if theman needs particular practices each time to achieve enjoyment, this is not normal. It must remain episodic, that it is part of a game in love. I repeat, nothing must be mandatory or systematic.
Why do men like to see their wife masturbate?
It must be known that this is a very frequent request from them. Women do not dare to do this, but this remains one of the greatest stimuli for them. A man likes to watch a woman caress herself, see how she does it, how she takes it pleasure. Today, however, it is less perceived as a bizarre act.
