April 28, 2024

The importance of complicity in the couple

The complicity in love
Judging by the testimonials gathered "being in a couple" does not mean just living with two, it is also synonymous with a strong relationship based on trust and complicity in love. For if a fulfilling sexuality can strengthen the bonds between the partners, the human relationship seems just as important for the well-being of the couple. Sensuality, tenderness and small attentions are therefore widely claimed by women and men.

Isabelle, 32 years old
"Eight years ago when we met with the man who was going to be my husband, we were, I guess, like all couples, all the time making love. Then the years passed and, yes, we still have so much fun making love, our complicity has become something equally important. When I see some couples around me who seem so strangers, I tell myself that it is a great chance to advance like that both. Is my behavior due to my education? Perhaps ! I have always seen my parents very accomplices and have small tender gestures. "
 
Marie, 45 years old
"We have been in a relationship since ... oh la la! 25 years already! We have, I admit, gone through difficult times, but if there is something that has never changed, it is our complicity. This did not stop us from going away sexually for a while. But precisely it is our complicity, all that we shared other than the sexuality, properly speaking, which made that our couple held. We have always discussed a lot of things in a very transparent way and kept a lot of attention to each other. "
 
Sexual complicity
Here again, in a couple, sexuality evolves with time. When the two get along well, complicity in the couple and trust are established, dialogue also. All this obviously helps to maintain the desire, even to increase it.

Mathilde, 37 years old
"I have been married for ten years and when I think back to our first nights of love I think we have still evolved! We were not very comfortable, but at the same time we talked about it quite easily. What made that very quickly we had a nice complicity at the level of our sexuality, which I describe as classic, but which suits us perfectly. "

Mathieu, 39 years old
"It's been a short time since I've known a woman's love and sexual complicity. I have been married for many years, but we missed it and that's why we separated. Two years ago, I met a woman of my age with whom I share a lot of things. Is it the maturity that makes us better know what we aspire to? I think so. It is pure happiness to see our complicity grow with our couple. We discuss a lot and everything. And I would say that the icing on the cake is that we have a fulfilling sexuality. "

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